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I am a sinlge parent of a beautiful little girl. I am a college student and I work full time. I am basically a step under Super Woman

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Lupe Fiasco's BullShit......

Lupe Fiasco…..

I was listening to satellite radio on my way to work and got word of Lupe talking bad about President Obama. He actually called Barak Obama “the real terrorist”.  WHAT?

“To me, the biggest terrorist is Obama in the United States of America,” he said in an interview with CBS News' "What's Trending." “For me, I’m trying to fight the terrorism that’s actually causing the other forms of terrorism. The root cause of terrorism is the stuff that the U.S. government allows to happen, the foreign policies that we have in place in different countries that inspire people to become terrorists. And it’s easy for us, because it’s really just some oil that we can really get on our own.”

In my personal opinion, I feel that Lupe wants to come off as a very intellectual person. When in fact, he is a peon. People that are not smart enough to breakdown what he is saying can’t follow him! While the people that are smart enough, know he is full of shit!

Way to go Lupe! You are an official peon!

Monday, June 13, 2011

Little Brother

Lately there has been a lot going on. Family wise. I feel as if everything happens for a reason. I feel that God will use certain people in a situation to make another individual aware of what is happening. I feel that at this point in life, God decided to use my family so that some members in my immediate family would wake the hell up. Have they really woke up, not completely. But I do feel that the pain they are feeling right now is not like any other pain that can ever be thought of. I feel that all of this family drama is a learning experience for all of us.

I just hope we learn the lesson before it is too late.


Phoenix from the great iPad

Twitter and FB

OK. Is it just me, or is Twitter and FB getting really lame? Just my thoughts. I get on FB to totally pass the time but it is not really entertaining to me anymore. I wonder what will be the next big thing in social networking.......

Who knows.


Phoenix from the great iPad

What do you guys think......

Hey everybody. A friend and I were having a conversation today about relationships. And I have a simple question.........

Would you date someone that is not as stable as you?

I totally understand that love has no colors and it should have no boundaries, but at what point does stability play a major role in a relationship? I feel that one partner being unstable can add tension to a relationship. Especially if that person does not have the same drive and motivation as you do. Sometimes I wonder how people are so old and unstable. I personally feel this way because I have been on my own with a child for about 5 years, so why can't other people? Even though I know it is not fair to think that way because everyone is dealt a different hand in life, but you can't continue to make excuses. I know so many people that were dealt a bad set of cards and they made a way for themselves in the process.

So what do you guys think?

Phoenix from the great iPad

Monday, June 6, 2011

Sex can be simple!

Ok boo’s, let’s keep it simple and to the point. We all like sex. It’s a part of life. But some are better than others. Some are willing to step outside of the “norm” and really experience all of the things that the human body can do.
It takes confidence, knowing what you want to achieve, having a partner that you are most comfortable with, and did I mention confidence????
Well, there are a few basic things that can bring spice to your sex life.  A few things that are not far into the freak world and shouldn’t make you uncomfortable. One thing that is a must….. talk to your mate. Find out what they want to do. Find out what their fantasy is. (By having this conversation, you are opening the door to great communication).
Another tip is to watch movies together. They are a good way to find out new things to do. Also, pay attention to the reaction of your mate. This way, you can surprise them by trying something new. Visit the “FUN” stores together. Everything that you need is available in those stores. They have everything from books, toys, oils, and candles!
A major note that you all need to take to the bedroom…….don’t “perform” for every single person! Keep it for that special person that will come into your life.

Deal Breakers

OK......What are some deal breakers with you? What are somethings that you simply will not tolerate in a relationship?

Venting

I have been neglecting my blog lately!!!! I’m super sorry.

Anywho…..I feel the need to vent. And what better way to do that than to vent to my own blog!

Lately, I have tried the dating thing. It sucks. It’s a waste of time. BUT, it is vital in getting to know someone. I have meet people at gas stations, grocery stores, malls, online sites, and everywhere else you can think of! But I’m tired of dating. It’s a damn hassle. It can become expensive too. I want the one guy I can come home to. I want the guy that I can ultimately trust. I want the guy that gives me the attention that every woman wants. Tells me I’m beautiful and all that jazz. And can have fun and laugh! There is a guy that I like, but the question is, is he ready for what I’m ready for? Does he really want to settle down? Is he prepared to turn in his player card? I guess only time will tell.

Another thing that I hate, is people are always trying to put a timeframe on something! You can’t do that! If you like someone just let go of all the rules and live. Don’t try to plan everything or figure it all out. I used to do that. And honestly, it’s not really fun at all.