Lupe Fiasco's BullShit......

Lupe Fiasco…..

I was listening to satellite radio on my way to work and got word of Lupe talking bad about President Obama. He actually called Barak Obama “the real terrorist”.  WHAT?

“To me, the biggest terrorist is Obama in the United States of America,” he said in an interview with CBS News' "What's Trending." “For me, I’m trying to fight the terrorism that’s actually causing the other forms of terrorism. The root cause of terrorism is the stuff that the U.S. government allows to happen, the foreign policies that we have in place in different countries that inspire people to become terrorists. And it’s easy for us, because it’s really just some oil that we can really get on our own.”

In my personal opinion, I feel that Lupe wants to come off as a very intellectual person. When in fact, he is a peon. People that are not smart enough to breakdown what he is saying can’t follow him! While the people that are smart enough, know he is full of shit!

Way to go Lupe! You are an official peon!

Little Brother

Lately there has been a lot going on. Family wise. I feel as if everything happens for a reason. I feel that God will use certain people in a situation to make another individual aware of what is happening. I feel that at this point in life, God decided to use my family so that some members in my immediate family would wake the hell up. Have they really woke up, not completely. But I do feel that the pain they are feeling right now is not like any other pain that can ever be thought of. I feel that all of this family drama is a learning experience for all of us.

I just hope we learn the lesson before it is too late.


Phoenix from the great iPad

Twitter and FB

OK. Is it just me, or is Twitter and FB getting really lame? Just my thoughts. I get on FB to totally pass the time but it is not really entertaining to me anymore. I wonder what will be the next big thing in social networking.......

Who knows.


Phoenix from the great iPad

What do you guys think......

Hey everybody. A friend and I were having a conversation today about relationships. And I have a simple question.........

Would you date someone that is not as stable as you?

I totally understand that love has no colors and it should have no boundaries, but at what point does stability play a major role in a relationship? I feel that one partner being unstable can add tension to a relationship. Especially if that person does not have the same drive and motivation as you do. Sometimes I wonder how people are so old and unstable. I personally feel this way because I have been on my own with a child for about 5 years, so why can't other people? Even though I know it is not fair to think that way because everyone is dealt a different hand in life, but you can't continue to make excuses. I know so many people that were dealt a bad set of cards and they made a way for themselves in the process.

So what do you guys think?

Phoenix from the great iPad

Sex can be simple!

Ok boo’s, let’s keep it simple and to the point. We all like sex. It’s a part of life. But some are better than others. Some are willing to step outside of the “norm” and really experience all of the things that the human body can do.

It takes confidence, knowing what you want to achieve, having a partner that you are most comfortable with, and did I mention confidence????

Well, there are a few basic things that can bring spice to your sex life.  A few things that are not far into the freak world and shouldn’t make you uncomfortable. One thing that is a must….. talk to your mate. Find out what they want to do. Find out what their fantasy is. (By having this conversation, you are opening the door to great communication).

Another tip is to watch movies together. They are a good way to find out new things to do. Also, pay attention to the reaction of your mate. This way, you can surprise them by trying something new. Visit the “FUN” stores together. Everything that you need is available in those stores. They have everything from books, toys, oils, and candles!

A major note that you all need to take to the bedroom…….don’t “perform” for every single person! Keep it for that special person that will come into your life.

Deal Breakers

OK......What are some deal breakers with you? What are somethings that you simply will not tolerate in a relationship?

Venting

I have been neglecting my blog lately!!!! I’m super sorry.

Anywho…..I feel the need to vent. And what better way to do that than to vent to my own blog!

Lately, I have tried the dating thing. It sucks. It’s a waste of time. BUT, it is vital in getting to know someone. I have meet people at gas stations, grocery stores, malls, online sites, and everywhere else you can think of! But I’m tired of dating. It’s a damn hassle. It can become expensive too. I want the one guy I can come home to. I want the guy that I can ultimately trust. I want the guy that gives me the attention that every woman wants. Tells me I’m beautiful and all that jazz. And can have fun and laugh! There is a guy that I like, but the question is, is he ready for what I’m ready for? Does he really want to settle down? Is he prepared to turn in his player card? I guess only time will tell.

Another thing that I hate, is people are always trying to put a timeframe on something! You can’t do that! If you like someone just let go of all the rules and live. Don’t try to plan everything or figure it all out. I used to do that. And honestly, it’s not really fun at all.

Summer

So its summer time and everything is about to get nutty. People loose all common sense in the summer! And I just dont understand why.  Oh well. We will see what happens.

Galexy Tablet

Loving this new toy. The Galaxy Tablet is nice. I love it because it is smaller than the iPad so it fits right in my purse.

Awesome.

Hey

Friday April 30th

Today has been weird. I feel.....hell I don't even know how I feel. I saw some of The Royal wedding tho. And I really wished I could have been there! lol.

But anyway........ummmmm

I'll be back when I figure out how I want to say what I want to say

Cheating

Why is it easier for women to take back a cheating man, than it is for a man to take back a cheating woman?

I think men let their whole ego trip get in the way. I feel that women try to see the positive in things and we have "hope" that our man will not do it again. What do you guys think?

I feel like typing

OK folks. I feel like talking tonight. What should I discuss first?

Why I Have MY OWN BLOG!!!!

Simply to say what I want to. People always make something out of nothing. Never take offense to anything that I say. At the momnet, I might be ranting and raving and need to just say what I feel. So please don't take what I say to a personal level.

Thanks.

SORRY BOO'S

Weel, it has been a minute since I last hit you guys up. I have had a little bit of interesting things happen. But nothing too major. Pretty much in slow motion. Which is a good thing.

One thing that happened that was pretty serious, were the tornadoes that we had in the midwest. It was very scary. Nothing happened to me directly, but my cousin was directly affected and a few other people that I know personally.

A little stressed today! But I will tell you guys about it! Sorry for the neglect Mr. London! (You know who you are)

Venting

Sooooo, you like me and I like you right.............so what is the problem with us being exclusive? How much do you expect from me before we are exclusive? To me, if we do not sit down and say, we are in a relationship, then we are friends. I do not like gray areas. I do not want any confusion. I do not want anybody to be misunderstood and or confused about anything that is going on. Soooooo, lets make it official OR, you my friend.

What I don't understand

Ok, so somebody answer this for me???????????????

You have a person that you say you don't like, you complain about them and even think they are cheating. But, the person that you complain and vent to you kind of like. They are someone that wants the same things out of life that you do, attractive, has similar interest as you, so whats the problem?  You continue on with the mess that you fuss about. But why? Why does the friend finish last knowing that you like them and they would be good for you? THINK ABOUT IT!

Later tonight, I will discuss what Tyrese was saying on The Wendy Williams Show!

Really liking my new friend from London! I have learned a lot from him in just a few days!

OMG guys! Tyrese Gibson is about to be on Wendy Williams Show! I heart this man!

Do you Facebook or Twitter stalk?

So, why do we do it knowing that we are going to get mad? What exactly are we searching for? Do we honestly find what we are looking for or do we allow our minds to see what we have already set ourselves up to believe? Stop cyber stalking! It is plain tacky and can cause a lot of issues within a relationship. Go back to talking to your mate. Lay out the cyber rules and go from there. Also, if you feel that your man is being disrespectful to you online and you have addressed it and nothing has changed, then what will cyber stalking fix? It will only move to the inbox! Therefore, leaving you blind and oblivious to what’s going on in your mate’s cyber world. Pick and choose your battles ladies. Know when to step up and address your feelings and know when to check your feelings.

Let’s make this work!

Ok Ladies, I have asked a few men “What must your girlfriend do to keep you from stepping out?” and I have gotten many different answers. Some of the answers I deleted (as well as the senders) because it was plain buffoonery and totally sexist. Other answers made me think outside the box. While a handful simply made me realize that men are not complex characters.  Basically, if you can hold it down in the kitchen, keep yourself up, don’t over communicate, and rock it in the bedroom, you can keep a man that is ready to be kept. As stated before in many books to women on how to keep a man, you have to learn to relax. Men will not and do not respond to us yelling and over reacting. Therefore, we have to learn different ways to approach situations to get what we want from our man. We have to do the typical ego stroking Ladies. We have to be gentle in our approach yet firm. We also have to understand just because it is a top priority to us, does not mean that it is a top priority to men and vice versa. An easy way to fix this is to know and accept that many men will say they are going to do something, but that does not always mean that it will be done on OUR time. They might do the dishes right before bed instead of after dinner. They might put that load of laundry in before work on Monday instead of Sunday night when you asked while the football game was on. But it got done and with no error so life is still good. So Ladies, relax and actually enjoy your man. If issues arise, discuss them without placing blame and be calm and just talk.

Do you guys agree?

I love my momma. Enough said!

Fashion

Lets just say a few things that are "IN" this spring/summer.

1. Boat Shoes
2. Hobo bags
3. Boyfriend Jeans
4. Plain crisp shirts
5. Short shorts (if your legs are built for it)
6. Neon colors
7. Summer cardigans
8. Nude pumps
9. Maxi dresses that are for your body type

Follow these rules and you are good to go. Just add a little of your own flavor and some jewels!

DEUCES!!!

Breezy

Ok. People are apparently still on the whole Chris Brown and Rihanna thing. Why? He slapped her up and now what???????????? BUT nobody has ever went into detail about what she has done. Nobody has said what she did or if she kicked the whole fight off. Since he is a man, it is ok to dog him out. But is it ok for a woman to hit a man? Physically and mentally attack him? break him down? NO. It is the same thing. Who does it first does not matter. So for once in life, lets not be the typical critics that we are. Everyone has a breaking point and nobody was there. So get over it.

And please do not think that I am saying that beating a woman is the new in thing, because it is not. What I am saying is, don't start a fight and then cry wofl. UNCOOL.

This is new

At this point in my life, I feel like I am going thru a transition. It is not an easy transition by far. Its all about making a sacrafice. About trying to excel in a world where love does not exist anymore. But, this is something that I have figured out that I must do. There will be setbacks, slip ups, and everything else that can go wrong but I am determined to keep pushing past it.

Friendship

What exactly do you consider friendship? Is a friend someone you trust? Someone you know everything about? How do you find your friends? How do you really know if a "friend" is really right for you?

These are all questions that need to be considered when making new friends. One thing that I have learned about friends is that you should be able to talk to them. You should be able to tell them when they are wrong and vice versa. If you cannot do that, then they are not you friend. A lot of people don't say things because they do not want to be thought of as the hater. I have been in this situation before. People will also go along with the crap you say or the crap you are interested in to keep from hearing your mouth.

TO BE CONTINUED........

COTR

Hey Boo's. Just wanted to give you a teaspoon of info. I went to Church on the Rock Sunday, and had a great time. The service was short, sweet, and to the point. I actually took a lot away from the service. I even went to the alter for prayer. Which was very refreshing.

FASHION

What is new in 2011 as far as fashion? I went to the Galleria Mall today and I honestly did not see anything too interesting. What I am looking forward to this summer is colors. Bright bold colors. Red, orange, yellow, pink, and blues. I am waiting on beautiful bags with really vibrant colors. Which Coach does have! It is their Poppy line. http://www.coach.com/poppy-us/bags.html This line of bags is soooo awesome!

Question of the day.....What are you afraid of? Sometimes I think I'm scared of commitment because I am afraid of someone failing me!

You know what I have realized, men have started saying that there are no good women. But they push us away because they don't do the simple things. Call/Txt!

I was going to talk to you guys tonight, but I just left the gym and I'm tired!!!!!!

Tonight, let's hit on friendship! Ttyl.

I think I have found my niche. Jewel always brings that out of me!

I'm at work, having a heart to heart with my friend Jewel about life. How do you guys feel about life? What makes like great and fulfilling? What makes it good?

Kanye West

Good Morning my beautiful readers.

Just been surfing the web this morning and came accross something very interesting. The very fashionable Kanye West aka Yezzy, is trying to enroll in Central Saint Martins Fashion School. For those of you who are not too into the fashion thing, Central Saint Martins is one of the BEST schools for fashion in London. A lot of big names have attened this school (Alexander McQueen).

Then.....I read on MTV's website that it isn't true! WTH. But weather it's true or not, Kanye is doing it out here in the fashion game and I love him even if he is crazy and wild.

http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1659322/kanye-west-fashion-school.jhtml

In my opinion, this could really be a good look for Kanye (if it is true) because he is so into fashion and looks amazing all the time. I also love his fashion style because he is not affraid to take risks and does not care what anybody thinks or feels.

What I want is simple

• An honest man
• A provider
• A believer
• Someone who can do the simple things that women like (say good morning/goodnight, respectful, caring, affectionate, do what you say you are going to do no matter how small, and be around)

In all honesty, I do not feel that women ask for a lot. Well, some don't. I feel that we simply want the relationships that were know to our grandparents. The way our grandfathers used to show our grandmothers much respect. How they did things as a couple. But it just seems as if all of that has went out the window now. All we have to choose from are peons.

Why......

Love is weird. Like is crazy. Lust is sinful. But we all do it. We are all apart of it. But why? Why do we deal with the downfalls of all 3 of those emotions? Why do we as humans take, take, take, and take more? Why do we go back knowing that it will be the same mess. Nobody can really answer.

I feel people go back because they feel they cannot do better. They have been broken and torn so much, that they will deal with a persons mess just to say that they have someone. I think that this has to stop. It makes us as individuals look low. It doesn't make your mate respect you anymore because they know they can come back.

I have been apart of all of those emotions. But its sad to say, the guy that I was lusting over, was the best pretend relationship ever. We kept it real. If I was out with a guy and he asked......I told him the truth. Anything he wanted to know, I told him (and vice versa). I loved our relationship because we knew what to expect and we played our roles accordingly. It was easier than love. No hurt feelings. We had the best time when we were together and were real and open when we were apart. Why didn't we become an item......we never wanted to complicate things and we didn't want a significant other at the time. Soooooo, can people really love these days? Are people faithful? Do people respect each other in relationships anymore?

Does anyone hate going to the gym as much as I do?! But I have to do it! Go team Phoenix!

First Time

Its funny that your first blog is like a first date when you have that ackward silence lol. But expect many more.