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Wednesday, March 9, 2011

Why......

Love is weird. Like is crazy. Lust is sinful. But we all do it. We are all apart of it. But why? Why do we deal with the downfalls of all 3 of those emotions? Why do we as humans take, take, take, and take more? Why do we go back knowing that it will be the same mess. Nobody can really answer.

I feel people go back because they feel they cannot do better. They have been broken and torn so much, that they will deal with a persons mess just to say that they have someone. I think that this has to stop. It makes us as individuals look low. It doesn't make your mate respect you anymore because they know they can come back.

I have been apart of all of those emotions. But its sad to say, the guy that I was lusting over, was the best pretend relationship ever. We kept it real. If I was out with a guy and he asked......I told him the truth. Anything he wanted to know, I told him (and vice versa). I loved our relationship because we knew what to expect and we played our roles accordingly. It was easier than love. No hurt feelings. We had the best time when we were together and were real and open when we were apart. Why didn't we become an item......we never wanted to complicate things and we didn't want a significant other at the time. Soooooo, can people really love these days? Are people faithful? Do people respect each other in relationships anymore?

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