Friday April 30th

Today has been weird. I feel.....hell I don't even know how I feel. I saw some of The Royal wedding tho. And I really wished I could have been there! lol.

But anyway........ummmmm

I'll be back when I figure out how I want to say what I want to say

Cheating

Why is it easier for women to take back a cheating man, than it is for a man to take back a cheating woman?

I think men let their whole ego trip get in the way. I feel that women try to see the positive in things and we have "hope" that our man will not do it again. What do you guys think?

I feel like typing

OK folks. I feel like talking tonight. What should I discuss first?

Why I Have MY OWN BLOG!!!!

Simply to say what I want to. People always make something out of nothing. Never take offense to anything that I say. At the momnet, I might be ranting and raving and need to just say what I feel. So please don't take what I say to a personal level.

Thanks.

SORRY BOO'S

Weel, it has been a minute since I last hit you guys up. I have had a little bit of interesting things happen. But nothing too major. Pretty much in slow motion. Which is a good thing.

One thing that happened that was pretty serious, were the tornadoes that we had in the midwest. It was very scary. Nothing happened to me directly, but my cousin was directly affected and a few other people that I know personally.

A little stressed today! But I will tell you guys about it! Sorry for the neglect Mr. London! (You know who you are)

Venting

Sooooo, you like me and I like you right.............so what is the problem with us being exclusive? How much do you expect from me before we are exclusive? To me, if we do not sit down and say, we are in a relationship, then we are friends. I do not like gray areas. I do not want any confusion. I do not want anybody to be misunderstood and or confused about anything that is going on. Soooooo, lets make it official OR, you my friend.

What I don't understand

Ok, so somebody answer this for me???????????????

You have a person that you say you don't like, you complain about them and even think they are cheating. But, the person that you complain and vent to you kind of like. They are someone that wants the same things out of life that you do, attractive, has similar interest as you, so whats the problem?  You continue on with the mess that you fuss about. But why? Why does the friend finish last knowing that you like them and they would be good for you? THINK ABOUT IT!

Later tonight, I will discuss what Tyrese was saying on The Wendy Williams Show!

Really liking my new friend from London! I have learned a lot from him in just a few days!

OMG guys! Tyrese Gibson is about to be on Wendy Williams Show! I heart this man!

Do you Facebook or Twitter stalk?

So, why do we do it knowing that we are going to get mad? What exactly are we searching for? Do we honestly find what we are looking for or do we allow our minds to see what we have already set ourselves up to believe? Stop cyber stalking! It is plain tacky and can cause a lot of issues within a relationship. Go back to talking to your mate. Lay out the cyber rules and go from there. Also, if you feel that your man is being disrespectful to you online and you have addressed it and nothing has changed, then what will cyber stalking fix? It will only move to the inbox! Therefore, leaving you blind and oblivious to what’s going on in your mate’s cyber world. Pick and choose your battles ladies. Know when to step up and address your feelings and know when to check your feelings.

Let’s make this work!

Ok Ladies, I have asked a few men “What must your girlfriend do to keep you from stepping out?” and I have gotten many different answers. Some of the answers I deleted (as well as the senders) because it was plain buffoonery and totally sexist. Other answers made me think outside the box. While a handful simply made me realize that men are not complex characters.  Basically, if you can hold it down in the kitchen, keep yourself up, don’t over communicate, and rock it in the bedroom, you can keep a man that is ready to be kept. As stated before in many books to women on how to keep a man, you have to learn to relax. Men will not and do not respond to us yelling and over reacting. Therefore, we have to learn different ways to approach situations to get what we want from our man. We have to do the typical ego stroking Ladies. We have to be gentle in our approach yet firm. We also have to understand just because it is a top priority to us, does not mean that it is a top priority to men and vice versa. An easy way to fix this is to know and accept that many men will say they are going to do something, but that does not always mean that it will be done on OUR time. They might do the dishes right before bed instead of after dinner. They might put that load of laundry in before work on Monday instead of Sunday night when you asked while the football game was on. But it got done and with no error so life is still good. So Ladies, relax and actually enjoy your man. If issues arise, discuss them without placing blame and be calm and just talk.

Do you guys agree?