Ok Ladies, I have asked a few men “What must your girlfriend do to keep you from stepping out?” and I have gotten many different answers. Some of the answers I deleted (as well as the senders) because it was plain buffoonery and totally sexist. Other answers made me think outside the box. While a handful simply made me realize that men are not complex characters. Basically, if you can hold it down in the kitchen, keep yourself up, don’t over communicate, and rock it in the bedroom, you can keep a man that is ready to be kept. As stated before in many books to women on how to keep a man, you have to learn to relax. Men will not and do not respond to us yelling and over reacting. Therefore, we have to learn different ways to approach situations to get what we want from our man. We have to do the typical ego stroking Ladies. We have to be gentle in our approach yet firm. We also have to understand just because it is a top priority to us, does not mean that it is a top priority to men and vice versa. An easy way to fix this is to know and accept that many men will say they are going to do something, but that does not always mean that it will be done on OUR time. They might do the dishes right before bed instead of after dinner. They might put that load of laundry in before work on Monday instead of Sunday night when you asked while the football game was on. But it got done and with no error so life is still good. So Ladies, relax and actually enjoy your man. If issues arise, discuss them without placing blame and be calm and just talk.
Do you guys agree?
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